Hosts are the member of the system who fronts the most. They tend to have some level of power but it really depends on the system and its members. The host, being the one who lives in the body the most, must manage their system members and keep them in check. If a member does something wrong they must take action and do what's right. Having DID is NOT AN EXCUSE TO DO BAD THINGS OR LET BAD THINGS HAPPEN. just because you have DID doesn't mean you can get away with hurting people or your alters hurting people, you all need to be accountable for each other's actions. An example is that when one of my alters does something to upset someone else outside or in headspace, I will do what I need to do and either take accountability outside of headspace, or manage the situation within headspace. As the host it's your job to make sure everything is okay. Accountability is important